Teaching Students To Be Peacemakers

Cooperation And Conflict

With cooperation comes conflict. How conflict is managed largely determines how successful cooperative efforts tend to be. To help ensure that students will manage conflicts constructively (a) a cooperative classroom and school must be established, (b) students must be directly taught how to manage intellectual conflicts inherent in learning groups, and (c) students must be directly taught peacemaking procedures--how to negotiate constructive resolutions to interpersonal conflicts and how to help classm ates do likewise through the peer-mediation process. The result of teaching students to be peacemakers is that classroom learning is enhanced, the quality of life within the school is increased, and students learn the procedures and skills they need to r egulate their own behavior and deal with adversity.

 

The Value Of Conflict

Conflict exists whenever incompatible activities occur (Deutsch, 1973). Interpersonal conflict exists when the actions of one person trying to achieve goals prevent, block, or interfere with another person's attempt to achieve goals (Johnson & Johnson, 1 995a). Whenever conflict occurs, it can be managed constructively (enhancing mutual problem solving; maximizing joint outcomes; strengthening liking, respect, and trust; and increasing participants' ability to resolve future conflicts constructively) or managed destructively (winning at anther's expense; creating anger, resentment, hurt feelings, and distrust; and decreasing participants ability to resolve future conflicts constructively). When conflicts are managed constructively, they have considerabl e value. Constructively managed conflicts, for example, increase creative problem solving and enhance the quality of reasoning and decision-making; impact healthy cognitive, social, and psychological development; help individuals cope with stress and dea l with unforeseen adversities; energize individuals to take action and promote change; maintain higher quality relationships with friends, co-workers, and family members; promote caring and committed relationships; and create a sense of joint identity and cohesiveness within relationships. In order for the value of conflicts to be realized, all students and faculty must be co-oriented to and use the same constructive procedures for resolving their conflicts.

 

Creating A Conflict Positive School

Schools need to become conflict positive places where destructive conflicts are prevented and where constructive conflicts are structured, encouraged, and utilized to improve the quality of instruction and classroom life. To do so, students must be taugh t the procedures and skills they need to manage interpersonal conflicts constructively. The steps for creating a conflict positive school include (a) creating a cooperative context, (b) using academic controversies in classroom instruction, and (c) imple menting a conflict resolution / peer mediation program.

The first step in managing conflicts constructively is to establish a cooperative context. The more cooperative the relationships among students, the more constructively conflicts will be managed. The key to creating a cooperative envir onment is to use cooperative learning procedures the majority of the day (Johnson, Johnson, & Holubec, 1993). In addition to positively impacting achievement/productivity, peer relationships, and psychological health, cooperative learning promotes a long -term time perspective and enhances the learning of social skills. The constructive resolution of conflict within the classroom and school requires students and staff to recognize that their long-term relationships are more important than any short-term conflict. In order for their long-term mutual interests to be recognized and valued, individuals must perceive their mutual interdependence and be invested in each other's well-being. Since cooperative efforts require individuals to interact and coordin ate their actions, social skills become an integral part of making it work. Many of those social skills play an important role in the constructive resolution of conflict.

The second step in managing conflicts constructively is to use academic controversies in the classroom. Controversies involving intellectual issues (such as whether to develop nuclear energy as a power source) promote conceptual conflict s. In order to maximize student achievement, student critical thinking, and student use of complex reasoning strategies, teachers need to engage cooperative groups in intellectual conflicts by having members prepare intellectual positions, present them, criticize opposing positions, view the issue from a variety of perspectives, and synthesize the various positions into one position (Johnson & Johnson, 1995b). Frequent use of academic controversy as an instructional strategy allows students to practice their conflict skills daily.

The third step in managing conflicts constructively is to implement a conflict resolution / peer mediation program. There are two approaches to establishing a peer mediation program. The cadre approach aims to train a small number of sel ected students to serve as peer mediators for schoolmates. The total student body approach, alternatively, aims to train every student in the school to manage conflicts constructively. Peacemakers training is a total student body peer mediation program that is based on the assumption that when (a) all students in a school are trained to negotiate integrative agreements to their conflicts and how to mediate schoolmates' conflicts, (b) all students have the skills to use the procedures effectively, (c) th e norms, values, and culture of the school promote and support the use of the procedures, (d) peer mediators are available to support and enhance students' efforts to negotiate, and (e) the responsibility for peer mediation is rotated throughout the entir e student body so that every student gains experience as and expects to be a mediator. Without training, many students may never learn how to manage conflicts constructively. Training all students involves (Johnson & Johnson, 1995a):

  1. Teaching Students To Negotiate To Solve Problems: Negotiation occurs when persons who have shared and opposed interests and want to come to an agreement try to work out a settlement. A person may negotiate to win or to mutually sol ve the problem. The steps in a problem-solving negotiation are for both disputants to (a) state wants, (b) describe feelings, (c) give reasons for wants and feelings, (d) reverse perspectives (tell the other person's wants, feelings, and reasons), (e) t ogether invent three possible solutions to maximize joint outcomes, and (f) reach agreement and shake hands on one of the solutions.
  2. Teaching Students To Mediate Classmates Conflicts: Students must be taught how to mediate conflicts when schoolmates are unable to negotiate a constructive resolution by themselves. Mediation occurs when a neutral third person--a me diator--facilitates constructive conflict resolution between two or more people. The mediator (a) ends hostilities between disputants, (b) ensures their commitment to the mediation process, (c) facilitates problem-solving negotiations between them, and ( c) formalizes the agreement that they reach by completing a Mediation Report Form.
  3. Implementing The Peer Mediation Program: Each day pairs of students are chosen to serve as class or school mediators. The responsibility is rotated so that all students serve as mediator an equal amount of time.
  4. Refining And Extending Students' Negotiation And Mediation Skills: Each week and every year further lessons on using negotiation and mediation procedures need to be taught to refine and upgrade students' skills. Students need to pra ctice the procedures hundreds of times for overlearning, making the procedures automatic habit patterns that students use when serious and intense conflicts occur.
  5. Arbitrating Students' Conflicts: When students are unable to negotiate an agreement and mediation has failed, a faculty member or administrator may have to arbitrate the conflict. Arbitration is the submission of a dispute to a disi nterested third party who makes a final binding judgment as to how the conflict will be resolved. The arbitrator carefully listens to both sides and makes a decision. The process of having a teacher or principal decide who is right and who is wrong seld om satisfies anyone, leaving at least one student with resentment and anger toward the arbitrator. More importantly, it reinforces students' beliefs that they are not capable of working out future disputes themselves. For these reasons, arbitration is t he last resort for resolving conflicts within the classroom and school.

 

Conflict Resolution As A Discipline Program

The implementation of the peacemakers conflict resolution / peer mediation program is, in essence, a discipline program that empowers students to regulate and control their own and their schoolmates behavior. Discipline programs can be placed on a contin uum. At one end are adult-administrated external reward and punishment systems aimed at controlling and managing student behavior. At the other end are peer mediation programs aimed at teaching all students the competencies and skills required to regula te their own and their schoolmates behavior. Students must be given opportunities to take responsibility for and make choices about their behavior if they are to regulate their behavior. Structuring opportunities for doing so is important because self-re gulation is a central and significant hallmark of cognitive and social development.

 

References

  • Deutsch, M. (1973). The resolution of conflict: Constructive and destructive processes. New Haven, CT: Yale University Press.
  • Johnson, D. W., & Johnson, R. T. (1995a). Teaching students to be peacemakers (3rd ed.). Edina, MN: Interaction Book Company.
  • Johnson, D. W., & Johnson, R. T. (1995b). Creative controversy: Intellectual challenge in the classroom (3rd ed.). Edina, MN: Interaction Book Company.
  • Johnson, D. W., Johnson, R. T., & Holubec, E. J. (1993). Cooperation in the classroom (6th ed.). Edina, MN: Interaction Book Company.

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